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How To Get Over A bad Relationship?
Pain is not asking to be understood.. It is asking to be remembered. What seems to be a bad relationship, is a reminder of what to look for in the next one.
LOVE & RELATIONSHIP TAROT
Maya Britan
8/9/20261 min read
How to Get Over a Bad Relationship?
When we understand what relationships are about,
we come to realize that—
they are neither good nor bad.
They can be meaningful—or not at all.
Either way,
two people do not complete one another
by changing themselves.
Instead, they may discover the point of origin
from which they are both equally participating
in the relationship.
What is that point of origin?
It is the point where each is moving
in an opposite direction.
Unity is a complete ring of communication
between opposing movements.
Unity is fully experienced when we realize:
Opposites are not enemies.
They are both sides of one center.
The Point Is—
If PLUS is moving in an opposite direction from MINUS,
their shared center is ENERGY.
Two opposing movements do not cancel one another.
Their relationship creates something between them.
Perhaps this is what we are looking for
when we enter into a relationship with another person.
Not someone who will become like us.
Not someone we must change.
But the point of origin from which
two different movements can exist together.
Communication Is Not Always Verbal
In fact, every aspect of our lives and experiences
is in communication with one another.
Verbal explanations can be ineffective at times,
whereas simple acceptance does not require understanding.
We love others not for who they are,
but despite who they are.
There is nothing that says “I Love You”
like letting another person be.
Some Relationships Leave a Stronger Impression Than Others
Why is that?
Because something happened.
Something important enough to remember.
What is it we tend to remember most?
Pain.
We remember pain.
Pain is an emotional response that triggers memory.
Pain is not asking to be understood.
It is asking to be remembered.
The mind concludes that a bad experience causes pain -
-- but it doesn't make the pain go away.
What it does is realize that the participants
did not find their one point of origin.
That's not a bad relationship.
That's a reminder of what to look for
in the next one.
And there is always a next one.
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